OCT 21 — When a Malay wedding is over in some kampungs in Malacca, the custom is to welcome the groom into the family by placing charcoal on his face, thereby marking the conclusion of the groom’s journey. He is now part of the family and no more boundaries exists between the groom and the family.
So, it was interesting to see the reverse in action in a city like Shah Alam where, with one simple act in response to the proposal to relocate a Hindu temple, members of an entire community were made to feel unwelcome.
In place of the charcoal, there was a cow’s head and in place of an act to mark the removal of boundaries was another act that created boundaries instead of removing it.




